If you feel like you are not a priority for him anymore, look for the signs that I have listed below to see if you’re not a top priority to him, and to identify where you actually stand. Is all of it in your head? Are you being unreasonable? Of course not, but it never hurts to look for the signs.
There’s absolutely nothing quite as upsetting as getting that sinking sensation that your partner doesn’t see you as a concern, especially if you really wish to be with him.
Feeling this way can cause a lot of emotional discomfort. In situations where all you desire is a happy relationship, getting this impression can make you feel betrayed, and in so much pain.
For those with low self-esteem, it isn’t really a question of being selfish, rather it’s determining if it’s time to end the relationship and realizing that you aren’t a priority for him anymore.
Identifying where you truly stand can take a little bit of time, but if you watch out for these indicators that you’re not his priority anymore, then you will be able to determine your stance.
1. You feel extremely alone
Among the most noticeable signs you’re not a priority to him is how you really feel. Do you seem like you’re alone a lot even more than you are “together” with somebody? If you frequently find yourself acting like a “married single girl,” chances are that it’s due to the fact that you are.
2. He makes decisions without even consulting you
This is a good sign that you’re not a priority to him, and that you could already be headed for a breakup. This can range from financial decisions to relocating to another job.
3. He puts other people first before you all the time
If you find on yourself really feeling like you’re in a love triangle, it could be because you are. In a healthy relationship, you will certainly be the one he will put first. However, there can be some cases like a close relative of his that may have been admitted to the hospital for a life threatening emergency.
4. He always fails to remember important dates
Once again, this is among those signs that you’re not a top priority to him. If he can’t be bothered to make it to a date promptly, or can’t be troubled to keep in mind things that are necessary to you, he either does not care or he is the world’s most absent-minded person.
5. He doesn’t make time for you
No matter how busy he is, if you are really his priority, he will always find ways to make time for you. If he’s not making time for you, it’s already clear that you’re not his priority.
6. He doesn’t want to change
You caught him cheating, you ask him to stop, yet he still talks to other women. If a guy doesn’t want to change regardless of seeing you upset, obviously you’re not his priority. If he is not ready to change, it’s the fact that he doesn’t care enough.
7. He doesn’t care to tell you anything
A man who opens up to his partner is a man who prioritizes her. If he is regularly deceptive, never intends to share his day, and he doesn’t want to connect with you, then you are not a priority to him.
So what it means when he stops trying and you see all this signs that you’re not his priority anymore?
It means something is missing in the relationship. What’s missing is something he needs in order to feel fully alive as a man.
That missing thing is what I want to tell you about. It’s an obsession all men have. But they rarely talk about it unless they are a psychologist with a Ph.D. in masculinity and male psychological needs and drives. But once you know about it, it’s really easy to see how you can use it to your advantage.
When a man stops trying…it’s because he has no outlet for this “obsession” …or at least not in his relationship with you. As a result, your relationship begins to wither and die. But it’s not too late. Learn to open the floodgates for this obsession.
Then it will cause his energy to flow into his relationship with you. After that, all you have to do is sit back and watch him work on making the relationship something beautiful he can feel proud of.
The best place to start is here – watch this free video and learn why your man stops trying and isn’t more passionate about pursuing the relationship with you anymore and discover how you can flip on a Man’s “Obsession Switch” by Making Him See Romance as a Game He Can Win.
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